There are so many things I don’t say to people that I really want to. So that’s why its so funny to me when certain folks call me mean or ornery. They just don’t know what I want to say but do not because no matter how upset I am, If people are important to me, there are lines I just wont cross. There are certain things, even in a heated argument, I mind my tongue about. I don’t do cheap shots, unless they’re done to me. I don’t do name-calling, unless its started by the other person. The gloves stay on unless my opponent takes theirs off. Sure, no one is thinking about what the other person is not saying during an argument, but I’d like a little credit for my omissions, dammit!
When Arguing with Friends: When me and one of my girls have a little tiffs, I often don’t bring up things she’s shared with me in her most vulnerable of moments, i.e., how stupid she was for trying to make a guy jealous by sleeping with his friend and ended up getting laughed at. And I even stay away from how bad that weave looked the last time I saw her, or how the last time she got in my car, she left a sardine stench on my passenger seat. Nope, these are OFF LIMITS.
When Arguing with My Guy: I dare not tell him how I really feel about his kin- folks, or how the other night, the sex was absolutely bogus, or how corny his jokes are, or the how when he rolls over and asks for a kiss, and his breath smells like 3 day old sewage. Uh-uh, I CANT DO IT.
When Arguing with Strangers: Who I am kidding? ANYTHING GOES!!
So you see, Im really a very sweet person, even when Im upset. I will never understand what people are talking about when they say Im mean. I think they just dont get me.
What are you often misunderstood about?
4 Comments
11/17/2008 at 7:07 PM
im always misunderstood i think. i take some unique positions on most topics so most people think in odd but they just dont understand
11/17/2008 at 7:33 PM
Guys say that I’m full of game. IDK why they would say that. They say that I know the right words to say to make them feel like a man.
I think I’m being honest and sincere but I guess they’re not used to those types of compliments.
Also, one of my beaus said that I’m shady lol. I guess he only felt like that because I showed him by example on how I felt towards certain situations. …lol.
I’m a nice girl…and I’m down to earth. I say whatever is on my mind, especially regarding sex, but I don’t say mean or hurtful things to ppl, not even in the heat of the moment b/c u can’t take that moment back no matter what.
11/18/2008 at 4:07 PM
@Uncensored – I agree. I think ppl can always be considered odd if they dont follow the norm on things. But who defines the norm? The masses? bullshit! Id rather be misunderstood then if I cant feel how I want to feel on topics.
11/18/2008 at 4:08 PM
@ Nessy – so you a lil playa huh?? LOL! I need to come over to your blog and start taking some notes!!! LOL! I think youre nice too – Thanks for stoppin by!!