Okay so PopWife had a post asking readers “What is Hot?“ (I think his blog is slept on in a major way, but that’s just my opinion). I responded that I had the same question about the adjective SEXY. For the life of me, I can’t figure out exactly what SEXY means and to whom or to what does it apply. He then commented saying he understood and asked the rhetorical question “Is it SEXY to pay your bills on time?” LOL!
So I pondered for a moment longer on this subject. I asked myself “ Self, what is SEXY to you?” Then I answered, “I don’t know Nik, seeing as though I hardly ever use the word, except maybe when describing a dope pair of stilettos”.
I know if I were to ever call a man SEXY, it would be because he looks like he’s a good lay…after all the prefix of SEXY is SEX. So is it safe to assume that’s that is the standard definition of the word?
As I told Mr. CraigJC, I absolutely find it SEXY for a man to pay his bills on time. I also find it SEXY for a man to fix shit around the house. I find it really SEXY to see a man reading a book that doesn’t have pictures. Am I trippin?!
What’s SEXY to you? How is it defined? Is it often inappropriately used?
Be sure to head over to PopWife to check out this and other posts.
(pic jacked from some fitness website. And no, that’s not necessarily what I consider SEXY. I actually prefer a Dough-Boy belly)
